Tuesday, November 8, 2011

How to be Missional in your own Town

If your not aware of it yet, we are launching a church-wide initiative focusing on our community. We want to turn our attention and our efforts toward having a huge impact on the communities we live in, the developments, schools and our workplaces. We want to share who we are and what Jesus has done for us. And we know you want to join us in this effort, but your probably not sure exactly what you can do! Especially as a family.
Well we've put together a list of ideas that we hope will help you find ways to impact others in your daily lives. A big Thank You to Tammy Burkhimer for sharing some great information about how we can have an impact in our own communities! We've compiled these simple ideas from a 3-part series from VERGE, a fantastic online resource for community centered missions. Lets all choose at least one of these and make it happen this week!
  1. Start a Study Group at a local place that needs business.
  2. Be a regular with your kids at the same playscape/restaurant during the day.
  3. Ask your local college how you can help serve international students.
  4. Get involved with your local lions or rotary club to learn about the community.
  5. Find a local tweet-up group to meet with regularly.
  6. Frequent a live music night at your local coffee shop or bar.
  7. Make a routine of taking the family to a evening recreation spot (pool, jump zone, etc.).
  8. Find a local philosophy/theology discussion group and become a regular participant.
  9. Find a baking meet up group and be a part of their activities.
  10. Go to the same hair stylist/barber and get to know them.
  11. Stay outside in the front yard longer while watering the yard.
  12. Walk your dog regularly around the same time in your neighborhood.
  13. Sit on the front porch and letting kids (yours and the neighbors) play in the front yard.
  14. Pass out baked goods (fresh bread, cookies, brownies, etc.)
  15. Invite neighbors over for dinner.
  16. Attend and participate in HOA functions.
  17. Attend the parties invited you're to by neighbors.
  18. Do a food drive or coat drive in winter and get neighbors involved.
  19. Have a game night (yard games outside, or board games inside).
  20. Art swap night – bring out what you’re tired of and trade with neighbors.
  21. Grow a garden and give out extra produce to neighbors.
  22. Have an Easter egg hunt on your block and invite neighbors use their front yards.
  23. Start a weekly open meal night in your home.
  24. Do a summer BBQ every Friday night and invite others to contribute.
  25. Create a block/ street email and phone contact list for safety.
  26. Host a sports game watching party.
  27. Host a coffee and dessert night.
  28. Organize and host a ladies artistic creation night.
  29. Organize a tasting tour on your street (everyone sets up food and table on front porch).
  30. Host a movie night and discussion afterwards.
  31. Start a walking/running group in the neighborhood.
  32. Start hosting a play date weekly for other stay at home parents.
  33. Organize a carpool for your neighborhood to help save gas.
  34. Volunteer to coach a local little league sports team.
  35. Have a front yard ice cream party in the summer.
  36. Cook an extra casserole and give it to a neighbor.
  37. Buy an extra dozen donuts and give them to a neighbor.
  38. Start a compost pile and allow neighbors to dump their compost.
  39. Host a coffee and dessert night.
  40. Organize and host a ladies craft night.
  41. Organize an effort for neighbors to help take care of elderly in neighborhood.
  42. Become a regular at your neighborhood pool/park.
  43. If you have a skill, let neighbors know that you can use it to help them for free.
  44. Collect Good Will store items and offer to take them to a Good Will store.
  45. Have a front yard ice cream party in the summer.
  46. Start a sewing group.
  47. Go Christmas caroling in your neighborhood (invite neighbors in on it).
  48. Throw a July 4th block party.
  49. Start a neighborhood Facebook/Twitter/Google + group.
  50. Ask longtime residents to help you learn about the neighborhood.
  51. Offer to babysit neighbors kids so they can have a date night.
  52. Find out your neighbors birthdays and take them a card and baked goods on it.
  53. Setup a meet your neighbors night with drinks in your driveway/front yard.
  54. Ask your HOA or apartment complex if they need help with anything.
  55. Host a regular Saturday morning breakfast potluck.
  56. Host a sports game watching party.(How hard is this one?? Come on guys, here's a great way to guarantee you get to see the big game!)
  57. Have a bonfire and invite your neighbors to roast hotdogs and marshmallows.
All right! There's 57 ways to start relationships and be a "light shining before others"-(Mat 5-16). Let us know if you try any of these and please share any stories on our Facebook page!

Have a great week!

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Faith + God = Courage

From invincible superheros to the kid in the lunchroom who stands up to a bully, courage is a powerful force in the world. It moves us to do things we would never think we would do...until we are faced with a decision. The Bible is full of ordinary people who chose to be Courageous in the face of heavy opposition or even certain death. David. Esther. Daniel. Shadrach and his crew. These are just a few of the many folks in scripture that stood their ground and showed the world how a little courage can change the course of history. This month we will be exploring these guys, and a few others, and learn how Courage comes from our deepest trust and faith in God. Because as we say "I can trust God no matter what!"

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Sunday Mornin' Dance Party

Let me start this post by saying that we have some of the most incredible people in the world volunteering in our kids lives in UpStreet. Our small group leaders are hero's of the biggest sort and they never cease to amaze me, especially when the challenges of working with kids could give them them a reason to quit and just walk away...but they dont. It pays off in the lives of our kids every week and I cant thank them enough.
Last week in our 2nd-3rd grade girls group (led by Linda Helms) we had a young lady give her life to Jesus. This isn't an abnormal event, but the kids reaction to it was; and it had a big impact on me personally. I was standing with our small group director observing the groups when one of Linda's girls came running up excitedly saying "Carrie* wants to get saved, come on!" Since this is the ultimate reason we exist of course I was excited too. The girls in the group, about 7 total, were all gathered around Carrie encouraging her to move ahead with her decision. I asked Carrie if she was ready but it was clear Carrie felt more comfortable talking to Ms Linda than to me...which is exactly why we have small group leaders! Carrie and Ms Linda moved to a private spot to talk while the rest of the girls and I prayed for Carrie to take the steps and ask Jesus into her heart. And she did. When Carrie returned and told the group they immediately burst into screams and sounds only 7 and 8 year old girls can make! They were SO EXCITED! They wanted to have a dance party to celebrate, so we all went back into the UpStreet theatre to do the Cupid Shuffle and the ChaCha Slide...mainstays of all UpStreet dance parties. It was awesome!
It hit me that we should all dance like that when a kid, or anyone else, receives Christ as their Savior. We hold parades for championship teams, parties for turning a year older, and celebrations for completing school...but we don't celebrate salvation's quite as intensely. I learned from a small group of young girls that it should be. Great job Linda, you've got an awesome group of young ladies!

God Bless!!!

Friday, February 18, 2011

Mobility

This is a test. It is only a test. If this was an actual post there would be way less errors. But this is way cool if it works...Im posting from my HTC Desire (shameless plug for Alltel here).
Im sure there will be bugs to work out, as well as learning how to type on thid tiny little keyboard, but in the end I think itd gonna rock. We'll see I guess. -J



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Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Kindness


This months virtue in UpStreet is Kindness-Showing others they are valuable by how you treat them.
I think, in my house at least, kindness has the greatest impact on everyone. When my kids are kind to each other then their mother is happy. If I am kind to everyone then their mother is happy. If the kids are kind to their mother then their mother is happy. Are you seeing a pattern here? If momma's happy everyones happy. Okay I know I totally stole that but I couldn't resist.
Anyway, kindness is one virtue that can change an entire mood! A kind word or a random act of kindness could make someones day...even if you never know it. Jesus never said be nice when your happy, or when someones nice to you. He said treat others the way YOU want to be treated first. Being kind to one another is simply acknowledging that everyone is important to God, so they should be important to you also. Try it...be nice. You won't regret it!

Sunday, July 4, 2010

The Second Greatest Document on Earth

IN CONGRESS, July 4, 1776.

The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen united States of America,

When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature's God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.--That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, --That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security.--Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.

He has refused his Assent to Laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the public good.
He has forbidden his Governors to pass Laws of immediate and pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his Assent should be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to them.
He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to tyrants only.
He has called together legislative bodies at places unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their public Records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.
He has dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness his invasions on the rights of the people.
He has refused for a long time, after such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected; whereby the Legislative powers, incapable of Annihilation, have returned to the People at large for their exercise; the State remaining in the mean time exposed to all the dangers of invasion from without, and convulsions within.
He has endeavoured to prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws for Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of Lands.
He has obstructed the Administration of Justice, by refusing his Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary powers.
He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.
He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harrass our people, and eat out their substance.
He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without the Consent of our legislatures.
He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil power.
He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his Assent to their Acts of pretended Legislation:
For Quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:
For protecting them, by a mock Trial, from punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the Inhabitants of these States:
For cutting off our Trade with all parts of the world:
For imposing Taxes on us without our Consent:
For depriving us in many cases, of the benefits of Trial by Jury:
For transporting us beyond Seas to be tried for pretended offences
For abolishing the free System of English Laws in a neighbouring Province, establishing therein an Arbitrary government, and enlarging its Boundaries so as to render it at once an example and fit instrument for introducing the same absolute rule into these Colonies:
For taking away our Charters, abolishing our most valuable Laws, and altering fundamentally the Forms of our Governments:
For suspending our own Legislatures, and declaring themselves invested with power to legislate for us in all cases whatsoever.
He has abdicated Government here, by declaring us out of his Protection and waging War against us.
He has plundered our seas, ravaged our Coasts, burnt our towns, and destroyed the lives of our people.
He is at this time transporting large Armies of foreign Mercenaries to compleat the works of death, desolation and tyranny, already begun with circumstances of Cruelty & perfidy scarcely paralleled in the most barbarous ages, and totally unworthy the Head of a civilized nation.
He has constrained our fellow Citizens taken Captive on the high Seas to bear Arms against their Country, to become the executioners of their friends and Brethren, or to fall themselves by their Hands.
He has excited domestic insurrections amongst us, and has endeavoured to bring on the inhabitants of our frontiers, the merciless Indian Savages, whose known rule of warfare, is an undistinguished destruction of all ages, sexes and conditions.

In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A Prince whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free people.

Nor have We been wanting in attentions to our Brittish brethren. We have warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances of our emigration and settlement here. We have appealed to their native justice and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to disavow these usurpations, which, would inevitably interrupt our connections and correspondence. They too have been deaf to the voice of justice and of consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces our Separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, Enemies in War, in Peace Friends.

We, therefore, the Representatives of the united States of America, in General Congress, Assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do, in the Name, and by Authority of the good People of these Colonies, solemnly publish and declare, That these United Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States; that they are Absolved from all Allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political connection between them and the State of Great Britain, is and ought to be totally dissolved; and that as Free and Independent States, they have full Power to levy War, conclude Peace, contract Alliances, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things which Independent States may of right do. And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes and our sacred Honor.


The 56 signatures on the Declaration appear in the positions indicated:

Column 1
Georgia:
Button Gwinnett
Lyman Hall
George Walton

Column 2
North Carolina:
William Hooper
Joseph Hewes
John Penn
South Carolina:
Edward Rutledge
Thomas Heyward, Jr.
Thomas Lynch, Jr.
Arthur Middleton

Column 3
Massachusetts:
John Hancock
Maryland:
Samuel Chase
William Paca
Thomas Stone
Charles Carroll of Carrollton
Virginia:
George Wythe
Richard Henry Lee
Thomas Jefferson
Benjamin Harrison
Thomas Nelson, Jr.
Francis Lightfoot Lee
Carter Braxton

Column 4
Pennsylvania:
Robert Morris
Benjamin Rush
Benjamin Franklin
John Morton
George Clymer
James Smith
George Taylor
James Wilson
George Ross
Delaware:
Caesar Rodney
George Read
Thomas McKean

Column 5
New York:
William Floyd
Philip Livingston
Francis Lewis
Lewis Morris
New Jersey:
Richard Stockton
John Witherspoon
Francis Hopkinson
John Hart
Abraham Clark

Column 6
New Hampshire:
Josiah Bartlett
William Whipple
Massachusetts:
Samuel Adams
John Adams
Robert Treat Paine
Elbridge Gerry
Rhode Island:
Stephen Hopkins
William Ellery
Connecticut:
Roger Sherman
Samuel Huntington
William Williams
Oliver Wolcott
New Hampshire:
Matthew Thornton

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

10X

Summertime...sweet, wonderful summertime. Some things immediately come to mind when you hear that word....ice cream, swimming, cookouts, baseball etc., the list goes on and on. If you go to church regularly, chance's are your list will eventually include a standard staple of summer church programming...Vacation Bible School.
Unless you started going to church after high school, chances are good you've attended VBS somewhere. Either your own church held one (if you attended church), or your parents dropped you off at one close to your home. (Or more than one, 'cause it was 5 hours of parental freedom!) You probably still have fond memories of those 4 or 5 days a year even now.
Well, guess what....I loved Bible school. I admit it...I enjoyed the music and the crafts and the hangin' out with my friends. I liked the fact that, for at least a week, learning about Jesus was, well, fun! I wouldn't tell you that then, of course, cause all my cool points would fly out the window. But I really did enjoy it.
I grew up Methodist and for a long time I just thought VBS was a Methodist deal, like reciting the Doxology every Sunday. It wasn't until I was older, and driving I'm sure, that I began to realize that within a mile or two of my house there was about 6 vacation Bible schools being advertised. They were scheduled at different times...some at night, some in the morning, and almost all were on different weeks of the summer. Oh, and they weren't just Methodist.
Now, drive around today and the numbers of VBS's are amazing. If kids want to go to VBS, or parents want their kids to atttend VBS, there is no limit to the choices. "Hit The Trail", "WipeOut", "Surfin' Safari"...the themes are varied as the churches themselves. And kids still love them...including mine. My two oldest kids will attend at least 2 different VBS events this summer. They start with my mother-in-laws church, which they are are doing right now, then move on to my parents church later next month. Again, they love it.
So, now for the million dollar question. If I loved them...and my kids love them...and most adults have such wonderful memories of them...and kids often get saved at them...then WHY IN THE WORLD DOESN"T MOUNTAIN GROVE DO THEM??? Well, quite simply, it doesn't fit, and honestly, not necessary.
The history of Bible schools goes back to 1860, but the "modern-day" version traces to 1898 when a church leader in New York launched the idea as a way to keep poor and homeless kids off the streets for a little while each day while public schools were out. From there it grew into the version we have today....setting aside one week each year to focus entirely on kids. Little by little a common layout emerged for VBS...kid specific music for worship, and small groups of focused lesson/activities that tie into a large group lesson that attempts to show kids how 2000 year old scriptures are relevant in their lives today. Wait...what? That sounds very familiar??
About 3 years ago, Mountain Grove set out to change the thinking about kids and church. Instead of doing the minimal on Sunday to reach the hearts of kids, we would go overboard! We would turn Sunday mornings into events! We wanted church to be as exciting as any party the kids might attend the rest of the week. Ultimately UpStreet, was born out of this desire, and the choice to utilize a curriculum that maximized that thinking. Instead of 5 days of focused effort on kids....we chose to focus that effort 52 days a year. Or 10x the number of Bible schools.
If you aren't familiar with the curriculum's we use..click here and explore 252 Basics.Every Sunday in UpStreet, our kids experience; kid specific music for worship, small groups of focused lesson/activities that tie into a large group lesson that attempts to show kids how 2000 year old scriptures are relevant in their lives today. The exact formula of virtually every Bible school program.
Since so many VBS events will take place elsewhere, we have chosen to abstain. Am I, or Mountain Grove, against vacation Bible school? Of course not. Am I bothered by that? No. Am I embarrassed that "a church our size" doesn't offer VBS? Absolutely not. But for the purposes that we are focused, and with our current limited resources (fiscal and physical) vacation Bible school is not a priority. As the children's pastor I welcome any and all questions or comments anyone may have on this (or any) topic you may have. I can be reached through the church office, or through email upstreetkids@gmail.com or find me in UpStreet any Sunday morning.
-Josh